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🔍 *”My Truth” vs. The Truth: Why We Need to Think Critically*
I sometimes feel a flicker of frustration when I hear people say, *“This is my truth.”* It’s not that I don’t value personal experience—I do. But as someone grounded in evidence and reasoning, I feel uneasy when subjective opinions are presented as objective facts.
From a scientific perspective, truth isn’t declared—it’s tested. In fact, science doesn’t prove things to be true; it attempts to disprove them. A hypothesis that hasn’t failed testing may be accepted, but it’s never final. Truth, in this view, is always provisional—waiting for the next challenge.
That’s very different from subjective truth, which often emerges from emotion, perception, or personal belief.
Objective vs. Subjective Truth
Objective truth is verifiable. If it’s 9 a.m. BST in London, most of us can agree by checking our clocks. But subjective truth? That’s “You’re a great leader” or “This meeting was a disaster.” These statements reflect opinions—not facts—unless we have agreed criteria for what “great” or “disaster” actually means.
This is where gossip, hearsay, and social dynamics enter the picture.
In schools, workplaces, and even boardrooms, groups form around shared narratives: who’s in, who’s out, who’s admired, who’s “difficult.” It’s tribal. And while that can foster connection and culture, it can also warp reality. Reputations are often shaped more by group consensus than by facts.
And the danger? When we confuse belonging with truth, we stop questioning. We accept the dominant view of the in-group, and we scapegoat the out-group. A person becomes “difficult” not because of any measurable failure, but because a few voices repeated that judgment often enough.
Firsthand vs. Secondhand
I could list all the bands at Woodstock. But I wasn’t there. My understanding is secondhand—curated through books, articles, or Wikipedia. That doesn’t make it meaningless, but I wouldn’t call myself a witness to the event.
This matters because much of what we believe—especially about people—is second or third-hand. “I heard she said…” or “Apparently he did…” becomes “truth” without ever being verified. And when emotional responses—anger, confusion, grief—are involved, perception gets even murkier.
Someone’s pain is real. But the interpretation of *why* or *who* caused it may be incomplete, exaggerated, or misinformed.
Trust, But Verify
Wikipedia has a strength: its transparency. When hundreds of people independently validate or correct an entry, it becomes more reliable than a single post on social media. The credibility of information comes not from the source alone—but from its openness to scrutiny.
Unfortunately, we’re now in a world where convenience often trumps credibility. We click, share, and buy quickly. We adopt beliefs not because we’ve examined them—but because they came from someone we like, or they confirm what we already want to believe.
In this environment, it’s easy to let opinion override truth. To swap facts for feelings. To embrace easy narratives and reject inconvenient ones.
And that’s dangerous.
So What Can We Do?
* Recognize the difference between experience and evidence
* Ask questions before repeating a story
* Be cautious when emotion, social pressure, or groupthink is at play
* Challenge scapegoating and tribalism
* Respect personal truths, but don’t confuse them with objective facts
* And always: trust, but verify
Your Thoughts?
Have you experienced in-groups shaping narratives or seen subjective truths treated as fact? How do you stay grounded in critical thinking?
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